అమ్మ అమాయకత్వం

అమ్మకే తెలియదు ఎందుకు మాతృత్వం తనకు కలిగిందో. తన సృష్టి యొక్క ప్రతిఫలం ఏమిటో అని.

కానీ అమ్మకు తెలుసు మాతృత్వం ఎంత ఆనందమో, ఎంత మధురమో, ఎంత శ్రమతో కూడుకున్నదో, తన జీవితాన్నే త్యాగం చేయగల ఆనందం అందులో ఉందని. 

సృష్టించే ఉత్సాహం, నమ్మకం కలవారిని నిరుత్సాహ పరచకుండా ఉంటే చాలు అని అనిపిస్తుంది.

మానవత్వాన్ని, మానవాళికి ఉపయోగ పడే విజ్ఞానాన్ని ఆవిష్కరించే ఉత్సాహాన్ని మనం ఎందుకు నిరుత్సాహపరచాలి ? అవసరమా ?

అంత అమాయకత్వం అవసరమా ?

మనిషి తను సృష్టించిన దానికి తనే బానిస అవటం విజ్ఞానమా ? మరి ఏంటి విజ్ఞానం ? 

క్షనికా'వేషాలు', క్షణిక సుఖాలు ఏం సృస్తిస్తున్నామో ఏం నాశనం చేస్తున్నామో చెప్పవు, మనకు ఏం కావాలో కూడా తెలుపవు.

కాబట్టి మనం ఏం చేస్తున్నామో, ఎందుకు చేస్తున్నామో, ఎలా చేస్తున్నామో, ఎప్పుడు చేస్తున్నామో అని ఆలోచించుకోవాలి; ఎందుకంటే ఒక ఆలోచనే నిర్మాణానికైనా, వినాశనానికైనా మూలం.

ఒక్కడి ఆలోచనతోటి ఏది కూడా నిర్మాణం కాదు, నలుగురు కూడబలుకుంటేనే అది సాధ్యం. కాబట్టి ఆవిదమైనటువంటి అలచోనలు కలవారిని సంపాదించడం, వారిని కాపాడుకుంటూ మన ఆశయాన్ని నిర్మించుకోవడమే మనం చేయగలిగినది తప్ప మరి ఏ ఇతర మార్గము లేదు. 

ఇకమత్యమే కదా మనిషికి బలం, విడిపోతే విషాదమే కదా... నేస్తమా ? 
Oh... My Friend.

Science Superior to Cults - Steve Jobs

The Business of Teaching - Chetan Bhagat

నేనెవ్వరిని ప్రేమించలేను; నేనెవ్వరిని ద్వేషించలేను

నా ప్రేమకే సెలవు నా దారికే సెలవు అని పాడుకోలేను. 

నన్ను నేను ప్రేమించుకుంటూ ఉంటే ప్రతి ఉదయం, ప్రతి రోజు ఒక ఆశను మోసుకొస్తుంది అనే ఆశ నాకు ఉంది, అది ఒక నమ్మకం స్తాయికి చేరింది మరి.

ఈ ప్రపంచంలో ఎంతో మంది వెదవలు ఉన్నారు; నేను పరమ చెత్త వెదవను అయ్యాను. 

ఈ ప్రపంచంలో ఎంతో మంది అమాయకులు ఉన్నారు; నా అమాయకత్వానికి, చేతకాని తనానికి చింతించని రోజు లేదు.

కానీ ఇన్ని దశాబ్దాల కాలం తరవాత నేను ఎదిగాను, నా ఆనందానికి, నా దుఖాలకి కారణాలను కనుగున్నాను; ఈ ప్రపంచంలో నాకోసం ఎవ్వరు చెయ్యలేని, చెప్పలేని విషయాలను కనుగున్నాను.  

బాహ్య ప్రపంచ జ్ఞానం - అంతర ప్రపంచ జ్ఞానం, రొండిటినీ సమన్వయ పరుచుకుంటూ ప్రయానించడమే మనం చేయగలిగినది. 

మనకు ఏం కావాలో మనకు తెలియాలి; 

ప్రపంచానికి ఏం కావాలో కూడా మనకే తెలియాలి; తెలిస్తేనే కదా ఏం చేయాలో, ఏం చేయగలమో అనేది తెలుస్తుంది. 

ఉపయోగ పడే పనులు ఏమైనా చేస్తేనే కదా ప్రేమిస్తున్నాం అనే భావన కలిగేది. ద్వేషించడం వల్ల ఒక్క ఉపయోగం ఉందా ?

Kill frustration before it kills you.

When not killed frustration gets expressed to the people whom we FACE in the form of verbal and nonverbal communications in 24/7 environment. 

Eventually it leads to the breakup of relationships; hence we fail to be part of a constructive and progressive team. When not part of team no individual can progress in long run.

If we master communication skills and hence refrain from communicating frustrations it leads to physical break up of body and hence leads to psychosomatic diseases.

So its primary responsibility of every individual to kill their frustrations by being ‘a part’ of United Progressive Alliance (UPA !) either at work or at home. 

మంచి అన్నది పెంచుమన్నా 

విద్యార్దులకు విద్యను అర్దించే దృక్పదం ఉందా అని ప్రశ్నించే ముందు 

అధ్యాపకులకు తమ బోదన గురించిన అద్యయన జ్ఞానం ఉందా అని ప్రస్నించుకోవాలి.

Recruiting teachers for our charity or cheating requirements (as far as teaching ethics are concerned) is the culprit.

మన దాన గుణం కోసమో దృక్పదం లోపం వల్లనో అధ్యాపకులను నియమించుకుంటున్నామా  అని ప్రస్నించుకోవాలి.

మనిషి చేసిన రాతిలో దేవుణ్ణి చూడగలిగినప్పుడు మనిషిలో మాత్రం ఆ దేవుణ్ణి ఎందుకు చూడలేరు

   - గురజాడ అప్పారావు .

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My Friend's Daughter

   

                                        

                                        

I sincerely apologize any damage to any human being at MLRIT.

Every day I get excited to wear my ID Card as a professional family member of MLRIT.

This professional unique ID is an aadhar card which we trust; cause it speaks that we belong to each other. I never want to fail to communicate or commit to FEEL that “we belong to each other”.

If we wear national flag on 2 days in 365 days (independence day and republic day) what does it speak – name sake !!? identity crisis sake !!? – it ignites the spirit of being together as a nation to keep up the respect for our country; for all the individuals in this country. We are civilized, we are educated, we are modern; human beings successfully civilized from animal nature to human nature. Aren’t we ?

Andar ki baat, bahar ki baat kaise alag alag ho sakta hai !!

If so, this heart will break into pieces !! how can it happen at all – the purpose of acquiring knowledge or education !!

If I have the spirit of humanity I am a pro social element; when I loose the spirit I become an anti social element. Aur kya ? How anti social elements are formed, why do they learn technology, why do they purchase education with chiller – to prove their anit human, anti social attitude. Awesome.

We can only acquire knowledge with respect, devotion, commitment.

Chillar itself is not wealth, its only one of many forms of wealth. Our relationship with fellow human beings like how Mother Theresa and Father Mahatma Gandhi established and taught is the real wealth. 

You definitely can blame humanity – u have that muscle power, technology power. But the laws of nature are in action.

Intimacy

Mind's Intimacy only can cause Body's Intimacy.

2 unlike minds cannot be accommodated in one physical location; emotional space doesn't permit it; it causes dis-ease.


We cannot gain respect/love either by requesting or by threatening.
Respect/love is a thing to be achieved by our knowledge and capability.
Knowledge of our own self and and the knowledge of the world.
Capability of mind and as well body.


I never could become a slave(submit myself) to an unworthy person or a thing.
I've to master my heart.


Fiction did not brought me to this extent, but its only facts; My ability to understand and realize the abstracted facts.
Life will be interesting as we realize much more facts in this world.

Infrastructure

I have achieved infrastructure for body and am in the process of achieving infrastructure for heart.

A Doctor is to solve the problem of his patient.

కొంచం పని చేసి కొంచం ప్రతిఫలం ఆశించటం నా వాస్తవ పరిస్తితి 

ఉన్న వాస్తవ పరిస్తితి కన్నా ఎక్కువ పని చేయగల శక్తి నాకు వచ్చిన రోజున నేను సంతృప్తి పొందగలను 

అత్యాశకు పోవలసిన అవసరం నాకు లేదు.

నాకు ఇష్టమైన రోజు ఏది అంటే నా వల్ల ఎవరికీ నష్టం కలుగని రోజు, ఎవరికీ ఇబ్బంది కలుగని రోజు, నాతో కలుపుకుని.

Working and expecting result out of it is my practical situation.

From the existing situation if I could deliver more work I could feel content.

I am not greedy to expect more than what i deserve. 

The day that i can Love is the day in which i haven't caused damage to others, the day i haven't troubled someone including me. 

For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction;  Newtons 3^rd Law of Motion.

The world needs work, the ethical work, the professional work, which doesn't hurt fellow human beings.

A professional is one who can solve the problems of fellow human beings but not the one who causes a trouble.

Ex: You can witness in movie Titanic, as how the captain of the ship and the orchestra people take responsibility of their profession.

Origin

The origin of my body is obviously my parents.

The origin of my thoughts ! i am not sure. My Mom, Dad both are champions in Life even before i started Loving them.

The civilization of Mankind i witness clearly in my life.

Tragedy In Life

The biggest tragedy is not that somebody is not loving you

But that you don't have capability to love some one.

Love = Respect.Understand.Trust

Love= Care+Share

When we care for someone we obviously respect them and share whatever that we could possibly share; Whether its positive vibes or any materialistic comfort.

When we are optimistic and have spirit for humanity we obviously find many people around whom we can LOVE. 

Life is just love and nothing more or less; the way that we communicate(positive vibes) is what all that counts. 


Love yourself
Love your family
Love your profession.

I am afraid of Innocence

It’s the time to speak, it’s the time to be open, “it’s the time to disco”.

My grandparent’s innocence costed trouble to my Dad.

My grandparent’s intelligence(Love) gave courage-wealth to my Mom.

My Mom's Love gave courage to my Dad.

How much my parents are courageous and how much then expended for me I can’t count in currency or words. No exclamation.

But still my parents innocence costed me the lost of my sister.

What is the cost of my life ?

The courage to be open to learn to protect other sisters and fellow human beings.

I am afraid of further innocence in this world. I feel ashamed of all those moments that we couldn’t reveal that I’d a sister - for family reasons (because the world is that sick).

I am happy that I arose and awakened to my family situations and friends family situations.

I stopped counting on God, who is intangible, one who doesn’t exist in the people around.

I am answerable to my students about what education that I can give to them. Hence I am compelled to share all these.

In my toughest hour I had to yell to my Dad that I am a 'human being'. It should not happen to a student of mine, cause I’ll always be with them to realize their potential as a human being.

The lack of answerablity by professionals (either govt or private) is corruption.

The love for constructive human beings gives me courage to fight (educate) destructive human beings.


Teasing/misbehavior is destruction.
Appreciation/Good behavior is construction.

"Our scientific power has outrun our spiritual power. We have guided missiles and 
misguided men"  -  Martin Luther King Jr. 


Our purpose of education is to live life as a human being only - but not to behave like an animal (irrational) or to become an alien to human race.


The one who discovered AK47 rifle regretted his technological innovation when he
realized that it is being misused by misguided men (innocent people).


We are afraid of AK47 in an innocent kid's hand. Father of our Nation is victimized.

Producer-Consumer Problem

If the consumer won't consume what is been produced by the Producer where from enthusiasm comes to the producer to produce further.

If you think what the producer is producing is not worthy then why don’t ask for better produce. Else why don't you help the producer to produce better things for you?

If you doesn’t like the food that is been produced by your mom why don’t u take active participation in producing better food for the family. It’s because you didn't realize that we belong to each other, in togetherness. You have the desire to become an alien, an alien to human race! How bizarre!!?

We are blessed with Democracy. 

This is analogous to teacher - student association.


I possess/intend to possess something out of insecurity only.
I possess this body, i possess money, things, people only out of insecurity.


First and the best thing that i need to possess is the spirit - the spirit to produce better things, better relationships, better environments. 


If educational institutions produce better human beings who obviously can become better professionals then this country and world can be a much better place to live.


Money is only one form of wealth.
Optimism/spirituality/'health of mind' is the best form of wealth.
Knowledge is wealth which nobody can steal.
Health of Body is second best form of wealth.
Healthy relationships is even better form of wealth.


So 'Wealth Management' as some company claims is a misnomer - the wealth they are speaking is not actually a wealth. Just money is an insecurity. 

First Wonder In My world

When a student regards me as his teacher why can’t he express his thoughts to me?

Why is he not open to sharing of thoughts and knowledge ... in this particular information age and knowledge world !? Human beings have successfully evolved from stone age to golden age to information age right !!!

I still have Rs 3000/ of my previous month’s salary. Tell me before that is consumed; because time is money.

Does a teacher has to threaten the student for petty Rs 1, one day attendance and one mark in internal tests so that he is acknowledged as teacher in the external world ? Is this life so ridiculous? Then it is your opinion of life. In my opinion life is awesome; my experience of life says that. I just have to be frank and open – my compellation of heart.

My attitude successfully handled rowdies, naxalites, supreme court lawyer and whom not?

My only challenge/dream is to handle destructive extremists, being a constructive extremist.

If you think that I need a psychiatrist then that is a history which can’t be repeated; ah yes.

If you does't think that I am your teacher don’t greet me, don’t show your face to me – cause I don’t promote hypocrisy. If you are my teacher I’ll greet you cause I have something to learn from you. Promise.

The day that I discover that I am wrong I’ll accept my mistakes, cause I am always open to Learning – the beauty of LIFE. Kaun banega teacher ?

I promised my friend a decade ago, “if you harm your family, tomorrow you can’t exist in this world”.

Mujse dosti karoge ?

Ball is in your court. Hit it on my face. Does confidence matters !! aha ?

This Is My Problem

When a student ignores a teacher why can’t a teacher ignore the student?

When a student shows careless attitude towards a teacher why should a teacher care for the student?

Chiller ke liye?

Then what is the knowledge that a teacher can share to a student out of this

MUTUAL CARELESS ATTITUDE?

What is the meaning of corruption? chiller keliye chiller kaam karna !! Aur kya ?

Who is licenced to misbehave with whom?

Those who have more chiller can misbehave with those who have less chiller – the licence to kill ?

I never have done something for chiller but for my family, friends and commitments. That is how my life will go on but nothing against it. I take this for granted for life time alone.  

The value of emotions,

The value of breathe,

The value of blood,

The value of tears,

The value of nervous system,

The value of human beings in a human being's life is not part of academic syllabus but we can’t escape and can’t survive without knowledge about them. If one thinks that he can escape then that is the source for corruption at his level of commitment. Else what ?

Give me more... yeh dil maange more... I need education, educate me, I’ll pay you whatever that I could. 

Can a patient show careless attitude towards doctor ? 

Can a person show careless attitude towards a professional doing his rituals (work) ?

Then obviously Chillar rules the world, take this for granted. May your God bless you with Chillar, pocket full of chillar alone and nothing else for LIFE.

When a body is burnt it can't become nothing more than a vessel of ash, but what about heart ?


"Your Behavior with others Determines their Behavior towards you "

Mother Teresa

"If we really want to love we must learn how to forgive."

“If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other.”

"Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies."

"In this life we cannot do great things. We can only do small things with great love."

"Do not wait for leaders; do it alone, person to person" 

" If you want a love message to be heard, it has got to be sent out. To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it. "

"If you judge people, you have no time to love them."

"Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love..."

My heart is educated by my parents like this…

[ but so much communication gap in between]

Mother is the first teacher because mother teaches out of care and as well with insecurity from external world – so mother’s acceptance to the child gives courage to the child to win the external world.

Mother’s love is the only one thing we need in this world to breathe easy.

Because mother’s attachment to her child is divine, because mother has only one rational that is nothing but to keep her child happy; mother becomes so restless when the child is not happy, when the child can’t sleep, when the child is not taking healthy food. Mother is least bothered about the external word’s rational, cause she tries to understand only one thing - how to protect her child! ‘Love is blind’ is applicable in only mother’s case – cause mother’s rational is the only rational applicable to the human race, cause every human being needs only one thing – am I accepted or not. How wonderful it is.

You can be mother when you are a man – open up u know that u can. [Nescafe Adv. says].

[Ref: Man n Woman page ]

Father also has got mother’s nature because at times even he identifies the reasons to protect the child apart from giving challenges to win in the external world. 

Father basically wants to show to the external world that his child is a champion.

Open your mind. Be open dear – never we need to fear – did mother fear about her life to bring us to this world? No. Similarly to go forward in life we shouldn’t fear, we only have to show our love to the fellow human beings through our words and work. And what else life is all about?  

If I share something it feels like that I am going for self praise; but as the context demands I could tell this...

My friend’s mother gave me a hug with an insecurity feeling and hence requesting me to be her son’s friend forever so that he is safe. It shows how much a mother loves her child. No technology or no internet tells you this. So please mind this if you haven’t realized this before.

But in this knowledge world we have vast information available, people are so confused about what information to take and what not to take – some mothers don’t hesitate to throw a child away [I see in news but not in the people around!], – how sick? Even I can’t articulate the reasons for this sickness, but just take mother’s love for granted because that is all everyone need ... even in another girl that we could find.  

RAM n ROM

                                 (Beta Version)

Whatever happens today will be part of our primary memory (RAM) (day to day learning / temporary learning)

Whatever happens in our entire life; since the time of our embryonic growth of our body n mind will be part of our ROM (Permanent Learning)

As well, revision or repetitive learning which is guided by our conscious mind will be part of our ROM.

RAM is a temporary storage; ROM is a permanent storage for computers.

I call RAM as mind, ROM as heart.

Human Beings are self configurable computers with variable processing power (Intelligences), storage capabilities.

Essentially the programs in ROM determine our success or failure.

Without information or data what can be processed? And what can be presented?

Concentration helps in collecting information.

Commonsense (observation) helps in processing capability.

Both are mandatory in being Happy or Successful life. 

Please Don't Trouble Children

[ Child-elder is a relative concept. My parents can understand me to some extent and as well i understand them, cause i explored their childhood as well their day to day life. We are living in an interdependent world. No Escape. ] 


Let the children play.

Let them experiment with the truths,

 you give them the truths, the facts, as well the opportunity to realize the truths.

plz don't punish them, they are already feeling the pain. I can understand my niece.

Hopefully i grow enough to give her a better environment to grow.

My World is my Human Beings.

Let the children grow,

Let the children grow,

Let the children grow.

Be Kind to Human Beings. 

What do u want ? If not Human Beings !


If you care for plants i'll help you to grow plants,
If you care for pets i'll help you too. I'll give my full support to you.


Do you like to see the smile on child's face or not ?
I am not sure of your intellectual capability and your bank balance.