దేవుడికెందుకు లంచం ?

మా అమ్మ బ్రతికితే నీకు అది ఇస్తా 

నన్ను ప్రేమించే పెళ్ళాం దొరికితే ఇది ఇస్తా 

మా నాన్న నన్ను మగాడిగా గుర్తిస్తే ఇంకేదో ఇస్తా ఇలాంటి ప్రార్ధనలు ఎందుకు ?

ఆహ్ ఎందుకు ?

ఇన్ని కులాలు, మతాలు, ప్రాంతాలు అని మనుషులకు విభేదాలు సృస్టింఛినందుకా 

తెలివి కలవాళ్ళు, తెలివి తక్కువ వాళ్ళు, పొడుగు వాళ్ళు పొట్టి వాళ్ళు, నల్ల వాళ్ళు, తెల్ల వాళ్ళు అని వెక్కిరించుకోవటానికా ?

ఈ లంచాలు, విభేదాలు సృష్టించింది తెలివితేటలు ఎక్కువై అజ్ఞానందకారంలో కొట్టుమిట్టాడుతున్న మనిషే.

ప్రజాస్వామ్యంలో చట్టమైనా, మతమైనా మనిషి అభ్యున్నతికే, ఆనందానికే, మనుషులు జీవించడానికే.

ఈ విజ్ఞానం సంపాదిస్తే మనిషికి ఆనందమే.

Human Relationships

Human beings are desperate for relationships, more specifically to the outcome of that relationship but not inputs. Can somebody be energetic without proper food inputs ? Every person is different ( his situations, environment ), so human relationships are to be made one-to-one.

We take human beings for granted; it could be dad, mom, teacher, friend, police, employer etc; we expect them to be responsible (care for us) – but how far we are taking our responsibility is at the stake.

[ One late night I was sitting with my friend on road side who has come from my native place. Then one police came on a bike and enquired us and told us to go home. Then with a smile we said yes and moved from there. I can’t forget the smile he gave us back while moving. What I had in my mind was, I was with my friend and I’ll be going to my home, but that responsible police will be on the duty all night leaving all his family and friends. ]  

[ In another incident me and another friend were taken into the police van and to police station for we were sitting on the pit wall of a park in the late night. We cooperated with them (of course telling all lies) so we came out safely. Another person who was carried away along us but not behaving properly was given a kick. Police are playing vital role in the society much like other professionals; they will be having many pressures even from higher authorities. ]  

Responsibility = ability to respond in the appropriate way

One-to-one relationship counts in every association whether it is personal or professional. Taking the other person for granted is unwarranted. Win-win strategy is what works in every human relationship. By giving the winning edge (deserving respect and appreciation) to the other person only we can expect it back.

“Seek first to understand, before to be understood” is one of the principles of highly effective people.

Understanding others has got less clues and has no end. We need to understand to the extent whether can we bear the other person or not !

If we want to become an effective person who can enjoy the results, we ourselves will make responsible for our every talk and act deeds in our life. 

It’s the responsibility of every individual to take up a responsible profession in the society.

For getting better things and Respectful Life in this society everyone has to give better things to the society.  No Escape.

[ Our house maid achieved respectful life because of the most important work that she is contributing for us. ]  


Its not your possibility to win an argument can make a relationship but your possibility to understand the opposite human being.

Moral Support

Moral support is much in demand than Medical Support.

ఎందుకో ఏమో...

ఈ సమాజం మనకు ఏమి ఇచ్చింది ?

ఈ ప్రశ్నకు సమాధానం ఒక్కో వ్యక్తికీ ఒక్కోలా ఉంటుంది.

కాని ఈ సమాజానికి మనం ఏమి ఇవ్వగలం అనేది మాత్రం చాల ముఖ్యమైన ప్రశ్న.

సమాజానికి మంచి చేసిన వాళ్ళకు తప్పకుండ ఈ సమాజం గౌరవం ఇస్తుంది .

కాకపోతే ఈ సమాజం వెంట పడాలి, దాన్ని ఆకర్షించాలి, మనం చేసేది మంచి అనేది దానికి అర్ధం కావాలి, 

అప్పుడు ఈ సమాజం మన తోడు ఉంటుంది.

చిన్న చిన్న మంచి పనులు రోజూ చెయ్యవచ్చు, కానీ పెద్ద పనులు చెయ్యాలంటే ఒక యుద్ధం లాంటిదే అని అనిపిస్తుంది.

మంచి చెయ్యాలంటే చాలా కష్టం, చెడు చెయ్యాలంటే క్షణం కూడా పట్టదు, చాలా సులువు. కొంచం విచిత్రంగానే తోస్తుంది. 

ఎన్నో అడ్డంకులు, నిరుత్సాహ పరిచే అవమానాలు. ఎందుకో ఏమో... 

ఏదో గజి బిజిగా, గజి బిజిగా తోస్తుంది..  
రోజు తడబడుతూ ... తడబడుతూ...

రామానుజం లా బ్రతకడం కష్టం అయినప్పుడు అపరిచితుడిలా మారాలేమో ! ఏమో ! 

Listen to your Heart

Listen to your heart and act only upon constructive thoughts.

Since heart is blind to the external world, sometimes it gives destructive thoughts also .

Like how the popular useless concept says ‘Love is Blind’.

Newspapers give remedy to that blindness.

[In recent news paper I read the success story of Adani Group’s Chairman Gautam Adani. His secret of success is his strong belief “our desires are to be matched with needs of majority of people”. ]

Our only challenge is to match the internal world (our heart) and the external world (others hearts).  

[ Few days back I laughed at my neighbor’s challenge saying that I know that central minister, I know that police. But he can’t get his own water but dependent on us – he is blind to that fact.

I said with a smile that I won’t take up useless challenges. It’s not my cup of tea. This incident is one of my sweet memories reminding how much innocence is there in this world. ]

We have to give something useful to the society ( either through taking care of family members, our profession, business, politics, art, whatever )

so that we can expect useful things from the society.

If you give the best to the world, you can gain best from the world.

What you give is what you get.

“Expectations” without "giving" useful things is what is called blindness of heart.

Total sacrifice is also a useless concept.

This life is to achieve ‘Respect’ & ‘Money’.

We need to have this calculation and vision in Life.

Pessimist extremists destroyed WTC

Optimist extremists construct WTC and what Paradise not ?

Destroyers can never understand the importance and pain in construction. 

Careless pleasures will always perish but careful pleasures will never perish. 

Careless people who can’t understand the mother’s pain in constructing you n me should be brought on to their knees so that they realize and listen to their heart, it’s because mending body mends mind [ key in physical exercises n Yoga ]. 

When I am frustrated I do everything to escape it and find happiness.

And when I achieve happiness I do everything to construct and safeguard the boilable blood and breakable nerves. 

This candle has to be used to give light and lit all other possible candles [ by connecting to like minded people ].

Think Global act Local.

Think Humanity act in Locality

Human beings can swim oceans - frogs in well can’t even swim rivers.

ప్రతీ మనిషి

ప్రతీ మనిషి ఇతరులు తనతో మంచి (పనికి వచ్చే ) మాటలు మాట్లాడాలని, మంచిగా ప్రవర్తించాలని కోరుకుంటాడు.

Every human being expects that others speak useful words to him and behaves well with him.

This is the recent update i gave to my Dad. 


I am open to learning much like him. It's just that awesome.

My GOD

God is nothing but Good Intentions.

Good intention is nothing but not doing harm to another human being or to self ; either by words or by actions - 

The Only challenge a Human Being has to take up. 

Cause obviously Human Beings are the BEST among millions of species living on this planet. Crazy !!??

Crazy करना ही है 

Honesty rules the world. 
Today internal world. 
Tomorrow external world. 
Tomorrow never Dies.

Sun rises every day - for honest Human Beings. 

Obviously every human being is honest - few lack intelligence because of the environment he is born and brought up. Blame it on that, but not human being.

Once he realizes that he/she is a Human Being and that only relationship he has to have with another is LOVE, then obviously Paradise is his Asset.

Inspired by Human Beings in my Life - but not by aliens.

Love = Respect.Understand.Trust

LIFE = Learn.Indulge.Focus.Enjoy

Love yourself and Love all God's Creation.

Particularly i FEEL gratitude for Human Beings who excused my mistakes. 

Their God intention is what moving me forward, cause they never punished me.

येह तोह अन्दर की बात है.  

Ref: Honesty n Hypocrisy 

Controlling others is never my desire as well others desire to control me will never work.

Crazy people will obviously have Courage. 

Giving

If i can give something to a person i don't hesitate to give.
In case if i can't give i don't hesitate to say no ( either verbally or non-verbally ).


Else what option do i have ?

Reservations

In city buses certain seats are reserved for ladies. Means men are not allowed to sit in those particular few seats. Why ?


Because, in democracy all human beings should be provided equal opportunity to travel forward in life. All demos are equal whether one belongs to stronger or weaker section. 
This is the essence of Democracy.


Its right in reserving seats for physically challenged people and age challenged people.
Similarly socially challenged people ( including women) are given opportunity in Democracy.


Democracy doesn't encourage nawab giri, raja giri, dada giri for grabbing opportunities to live. Because its not a favor to one or the other, its the favor to the entire society.
Only if oxygen and blood is supplied to the entire body organs the person will grow healthy and prosper.