Human beings are desperate for relationships, more specifically to the outcome of that relationship but not inputs. Can somebody be energetic without proper food inputs ? Every person is different ( his situations, environment ), so human relationships are to be made one-to-one.
“Seek first to understand, before to be understood” is one of the principles of highly effective people.
[ Our house maid achieved respectful life because of the most important work that she is contributing for us. ]
Its not your possibility to win an argument can make a relationship but your possibility to understand the opposite human being.
We take human beings for granted; it could be dad, mom, teacher, friend, police, employer etc; we expect them to be responsible (care for us) – but how far we are taking our responsibility is at the stake.
[ One late night I was sitting with my friend on road side who has come from my native place. Then one police came on a bike and enquired us and told us to go home. Then with a smile we said yes and moved from there. I can’t forget the smile he gave us back while moving. What I had in my mind was, I was with my friend and I’ll be going to my home, but that responsible police will be on the duty all night leaving all his family and friends. ]
[ In another incident me and another friend were taken into the police van and to police station for we were sitting on the pit wall of a park in the late night. We cooperated with them (of course telling all lies) so we came out safely. Another person who was carried away along us but not behaving properly was given a kick. Police are playing vital role in the society much like other professionals; they will be having many pressures even from higher authorities. ]
Responsibility = ability to respond in the appropriate way
One-to-one relationship counts in every association whether it is personal or professional. Taking the other person for granted is unwarranted. Win-win strategy is what works in every human relationship. By giving the winning edge (deserving respect and appreciation) to the other person only we can expect it back.
“Seek first to understand, before to be understood” is one of the principles of highly effective people.
Understanding others has got less clues and has no end. We need to understand to the extent whether can we bear the other person or not !
If we want to become an effective person who can enjoy the results, we ourselves will make responsible for our every talk and act deeds in our life.
It’s the responsibility of every individual to take up a responsible profession in the society.
For getting better things and Respectful Life in this society everyone has to give better things to the society. No Escape.
